I never thought I would actually type those words…Kanye got me thinking, but he did. On Sunday night at the Grammy’s, Kanye rushed the stage shortly after Beck was announced as the Album of the Year winner in an attempt to defend Beyoncé’s honor…once again (here is his 2009 stage rush and here is what he pulled this past Sunday). He managed to not say “Im,ma let you finish…”, pass it off as he was just joking, and get himself back to his seat with a laugh and a smile, which with Kanye, is rare. He restrained himself for all of about two hours. During an interview with E! News after the Grammys, his thoughts and headstrong opinions finally spewed out of him. Below is just a section of his rant because as many of you know, once a Kanye rant begins, it is never just a paragraph in length. Click here to watch some of his video rant.
“I just know that the Grammys, if they want real artists to keep coming back, they need to stop playing with us. We ain’t gonna play with them no more. “Flawless,” Beyoncé video. And Beck needs to respect artistry and he should have given his award to Beyoncé and at this point, we tired of it. Because what happens is when you keep on diminishing art and not respecting the craft and smacking people in the face after they deliver monumental feats of music, you’re disrespectful to inspiration. And we as musicians have to inspire people who go to work every day. And they listen to that Beyoncé album and they feel like it takes them to another place. Then they do this whole promotional event, that, you know, they’ll run the music over somebody’s speech, the artist, because they want a commercial advertising. Like no, we not playing with them no more. And by the way, I got my wife, I got my daughter, and I got my clothing line so I’m not going to do nothing to put my daughter at risk — but I am here to fight for creativity. That’s the reason why I didn’t say anything tonight. But y’all know what it meant when ‘Ye walked on the stage.” – Kanye West
Obviously, the media, and the public, jumped all over this. As after every Kanye stunt, his integrity, intelligence, and talent were questioned. I read “Why is this guy even famous?” a total of seven times yesterday. Now, this post isn’t going to be in defense of Kanye West. However, I will say one thing I believe firmly in. A lack of restraint does not correlate to a lack of intelligence, but only with a lack of good manners. Before throwing strong-willed opinions around about anything or anyone, do thorough research. If you want to know why he is famous, then read up on him through the various reputable sources out there that have written on him.
What did Kanye get me thinking about? The appearance of intelligence in general. There are so many people out there who are quick to judge other’s intelligence, which I was one of those people for many, many years. One thing the majority of society has failed to grasp is that overall intelligence isn’t something that can be adequately measured. Absolutely, certain areas of intelligence can be tested and even proven. However, who is to say I am more intelligent than someone who did not go to college and graduate? There is a concept in the 2001 movie, I Am Sam, that I have always remembered but not until recently has it actually resonated with me. They return back to this idea of different smarts numerous times throughout the film, which is displayed in the following interchange between Rita and Sam:
Rita: But who are you kidding? Isn’t Lucy already smarter than you?
Sam: In some ways. But in other ways, she’s not, I think. I think in other ways I’m smarter than her. Smarter than you are, Mr. Turner. In fact, in some ways I’m smarter than you, Judge McNeilly.
In case you haven’t seen the film, Sam in I Am Sam is mentally handicapped. What the film is getting at is such a vital concept to grasp in life in order to obtain a respect for all walks of life. Sure, not everyone is going to know about linguistics, poetry meter, and British literature like I do as an English major grad. But let me tell ya, if you know anything about raising children, cars, writing code, or how to be athletically graceful in any sport, you are smarter than me when it comes to those aspects. Are addicts lacking intelligence because they are addicts? No, not at all. Do they lack self-discipline and restraint? Yes. But, do they lack intelligence simply because they are addicted to a substance? Absolutely not. Similar to how Kanye West’s intelligence and talent is not related to his lack of self restraint.
Once I was able to grasp the concept that I can learn something, big or little, from anyone, my respect for people grew immensely. I was able to be less judgemental, I was able to be more receptive, and I was able to be more understanding. An overall mindfulness of the “different smarts” concept can leave you open to receive so much more in your life that you may never have been open to before. Give it a try, I dare ya.